Profile SoulSurvivor: Kissing Frogs?Old Fairytale & Bad Advise

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Would Describe Myself As Seeking God... meaning... truth... friendship... love? Of course. Aren't we all? Aren't you? But many of us are too busy making a living to have a life. Not into the bar scene (nothing against social drinking, mind you) but I would prefer to meet a lady and then go have a drink rather than meet a lady at a bar. Does that make sense to you too? And have you too found that we are slaves to our libidos? It seems that "chemistry" rules when it comes to dating .... sometimes even when it comes to our choices for conversation. But I acknowledge that chemistry is important... for me too. The "Laws of Attraction" are just that, I guess....laws. See my profile and determine if we are a good “fit”. You may want to know in the beginning that I am not tall, not fat, not rich. I consider myself to be literate and intelligent, although my conservative friends often wonder how I could possibly be so liberal. I am not a hater, actually even drawn to multi-cultural relationships/friendships. I welcome the diversity that our community offers. My religious views are Christian-based although I haven't been a regular "practitioner" --- but recently looking to meet a Christian woman who may help to guide me toward our God. Or maybe we could help each other find the way.
I have learned people can get to know each other through cyber communications before arranging to meet socially. A few years ago I would have thought that this was inconceivable but have now had a change of heart after having developed on-line friendships, one in California and one in China. Honest and safe ….but lacks intimacy. Not looking for any more long-distance friendships. Like to find someone with like interests who wants to take the time to know me, lets me get to know her and that is near …. and wants to BE close in body and spirit.
I appreciate that you have read this far and will only add a few interests that you may share: dinners out....and dinners at home. Movies out ....and movies at home (popcorn mandatory either way!). Golf (not very good but enjoy the day in the sun). Tennis (as soon as I repair my Achilles injury!) Biking will soon become a favorite activity. Travel (definitely, when finances allow). Fishing. Camping (although the last day and night should be spent at a resort hotel to pamper after roughing it in "the wild"!) Live music (Classic Rock, Blues, R & B, learning to appreciate some Christian music. Some Classical. Even appreciating some eclectic, Asian and even Middle Eastern music.
Food? OK , I'll have some: Italian, Asian, what else do you have? I am cuisine-curious and will experience your favorites too. I haven't mentioned family but they are an important part of my life. We celebrate the religious holidays and the anniversary of the major events in our lives. You are welcome to share in my celebrations. Passion ---- it's what I find missing in life lately--- and it is NOT overrated.
Sorry that I've kind of monopolized the "conversation". What are your thoughts?
Sign Aquarius

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Fit
My Height Is 5' 6 (1.68 m)
My Eyes Are Brown
My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is Divorced
I Have Kids Yes - At Home
I Want Kids Not Sure
My Best Feature Is Smile
My Hair Is Brown
Willing To Relocate Yes

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is Some College
My Current Employment Status Is Full-time
My Speciality Is Sales / Marketing
My Job Title Is Realtor
I Live With Kid(s)
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink Yes - Socially

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Cool Dude
My Social Behavior Is Comedic, Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Reserved, Shy
My Interest And Hobbies Are Camping, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Cooking, Dining, Exercising, Family, Fishing / Hunting, Internet, Gambling, Games, Gardening, Learning, Movies, Photography, Playing Cards, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Volunteering
An Ideal First Date Would Be One that was comfortable, like a "good fit", despite the anticipation of new possibilities.
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Cool

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services On Holidays
My Political Views Are Liberal
My Goal In Life Is To reestablish after my recent divorce.
My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Friendly

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Animation, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Blues, Gospel, Pop, Rock, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read Erotica, Fiction, Health, Humor, Mystery, Philosophy, Science Fiction, I'm An Author
My Idea Of Fun Is Almost any activity or even inactivity could be fun if shared with the right person.

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Empathy, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For? I look for an intelligent, genuine, expressive, honest, interesting and interested petite woman ( ---- large women are just not a good "fit" for me). I hope to find a good woman who is willing to take the time needed to really KNOW me and allow me to know HER in order to build a lasting relationship. As shallow as it may sound (although I would hope it comes across as "honesty" instead....) a physical chemistry is important.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed