Profile takin.it_all: I know what I want...do you?

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Would Describe Myself As Catching my interest is easy...keeping it is another story. I am as fun as I am practical and my boys (ages 13 and 11) are my priority, but that is only a portion of who I am. I love to go out dancing with my friends, going downtown, or hanging out as much as ordering in pizza and watching a movie or playing miniature golf or wii with the kids (guitar hero is kind of addicting and I'm actualy pretty good at it! lol).

This is my philosopy on relationships: "You are with someone because you want to be, not because you have to be and when that no longer holds true, it's time to end it". Relationships are as much about your own idividuality and independence as they are about being a couple. I would love to meet someone who is intelligent, who can make me laugh, is family oriented, financially stable (I am a division controller for a company in GR so I do alright lol), independant (but not too much so...it's nice to know you are needed), affectionate, and knows what they want out of life and isn't afraid to go after it.

My expectations are simple - I would never expect anything out of you that I wouldn't expect out of myself but keep in the back of your mind that I have high expectations of myself. I want someone who will compliment and support me and my goals - just as I would theirs, who will make as much time for us as they would for family (or their job - I work a lot, but my loved ones will always come first) and who is loyal, honest, affectionate, and fun.

I love my kids, but a stay at home mom I am not. I love my career and the independance it has given me and would not be willing to give that up for anyone, but that doesn't mean that I don't have time for other people or things in my life. Balance is crucial and I work as hard as I play, but I would love to have someone to share my time, and most importantly, my life with. If you would like to know more, give me a shout. If anything, maybe we'll make a new friend...and if we're lucky...more.
Sign Gemini

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Average
My Height Is 5' 4 (1.63 m)
My Eyes Are Brown
My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is Divorced
I Have Kids Yes - At Home
I Want Kids Not Sure
My Best Feature Is Smile
Body Art Strategically Placed Tattoo
My Hair Is Brown
I Have One Or More Of These Cat, Dog
Willing To Relocate No

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is Full-time
My Speciality Is Finance / Trading
My Job Title Is Division Controller
I Make This Much In A Year $45,000USD To $59,999USD
I Live With Kid(s)
At Home Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink Yes - Socially

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Brain
My Social Behavior Is Friendly
My Interest And Hobbies Are Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Family, Photography, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Playing Cards
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be I like to spend the first date getting to know the person that I'm with so going for coffee at a local cafe or taking a walk.
I've Always Wanted To Try to go parasailing, or to travel to Europe (I've been to Mexico so it's time to go to a new destination :)
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Goofy

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Other
I Attend Services On Holidays
My Political Views Are Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is Well, my career goal used to be to work my way up the corporate ladder and become a controller, but I accomplished that this year so my next one is to spend a month in Europe and explore the culture and all of the art museums. I would like to bring my children with me so they can appreciate all that life has to offer and know that there is so much more out there in the world than just our small town!
My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Friendly, Goofy

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch News, Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Comedy
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Country, Rock, Pop
When I Read, I Always Read Health, Home & Garden, Mystery
My Idea Of Fun Is I love to try new things, whether it be a restaurant, checking out a new band, a local festival, concert...I'm always up for a little adventure - even if that's just a hike on a trail somewhere I have never been before.

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Intelligence, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For? The more that I've learned about myself, the more I realize that I want to be with someone who is understanding, patient, can make me laugh, is spontaneous (as much as you can be with kids), likes to stay at home as much as go out, is social, can keep me intrigued with their intelligence and life experiences, someone who MAKES time, even when there is none, and is focused on their family as much as their career, not prioritizing one over the other.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Date, Committed