Profile scarletbegonia: Love is My religion

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Would Describe Myself As I'm a free spirit who is grounded by love. Despite all the ups and downs of my life, I find myself oftentimes thinking about just how awesome my life has been. I guess the reason why I feel this way is simply that I have a very loving family. I'm well loved. And I have lots of family that I love. I mean, what could be better? Isn't life all about the love you share with others?

I don't tend to dislike people. I try not to hate. This includes the hatred of other ideas and people. I believe in keeping the peace. Not only the peace of the world, but the peace that resides within. That said, i try to respect and learn about other cultures. If we can learn from each other instead of being fearful of the unknown, we all could grow from those differences.

I don't like war. That doesn't mean that I have the need to pick apart the people who have devoted their lives to fighting for their country. It just means that I want them to come home. I want them to come home and live.

For fun i enjoy going to concerts. I have teenagers so we sometimes all go together. When i was younger i went to probably thirty or so Grateful Dead shows. (I don't recall the exact number for obvious reasons.) I still enjoy seeing Bobby or Phil Lesh play. I have passed on my love for jam bands to my daughter.

When the mood smacks me across the face, I write poetry. Sometimes it's the only vice i have to let go of my anger and thus, most of my poems deal with that issue. On the upside, because I have this outlet (which is extremely extremely therapeutic), I don't need to take any pharmaceuticals to balance my soul out.

I am highly intuitive and empathic. Sometimes I can feel the pain of a stranger as they walk by and it hits me in the stomach like a punch. I have no idea how or why this happens. I wish it didn't.

My family is just the best. I have two loving psychologist parents and two brilliant teenagers. My children have been the center of my universe since I was 19. Sometimes it's hard for me to believe that I was only a year and a half older than my son when I had him. I would never trade that experience of being a young mom for the world.

I'm very artistic and creative. I'm low maintenance for the most part. I don't wear much makeup. I sometimes let my hair air dry. I leave my nails unpainted. If you're interested in a Barbie, I'm definitely not for you.
Sign Gemini

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Slim
My Height Is 5' 5 (1.65 m)
My Eyes Are Brown
My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is Divorced
I Have Kids Yes - At Home
I Want Kids Yes
My Best Feature Is Neck
My Hair Is Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These Dog
Willing To Relocate No

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is Some College
My Current Employment Status Is Self-employed
My Speciality Is Other
My Job Title Is costume designer/fashion designer
I Make This Much In A Year $45,000USD To $59,999USD
I Live With Kid(s)
At Home All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink Yes - Socially

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Cool Dude
My Social Behavior Is Observant
My Interest And Hobbies Are Arts & Crafts, Reading, Music, Movies, Family, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Travel, Cooking, Cars, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be Sheesh...i have no idea. I haven't been on a date in over 18 years.
I've Always Wanted To Try to parasail.
My Friends Describe Me As Being Cool

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services Once A Year
My Political Views Are Liberal
My Goal In Life Is My goal in life is to promote peace, be kind to others, and to be loving.
My Kind Of Humor Is Campy

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch Documentaries, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Science Fiction
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Rock, Reggae
When I Read, I Always Read Fiction, History, Horror, Philosophy, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is going to a jam band concert and dancing like crazy

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For? I haven't looked in over 18 years. I would like to find a compassionate, loving earthy type who shares the love of similar music and also the love of family.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed